Bible Truth Examiner

Graces of Christian Character

LONGSUFFERING

 

Scriptures are cited from the King James (Authorized) Version, unless stated otherwise.

 

“Be longsuffering toward all.”

 

1 Thessalonians 5: 14 (American Standard Version, ARV)

 

In modern English, people usually use the word patience, when they are really referring to

longsuffering; but in the Greek the words for these ideas are quite different. In Greek the word

makrothumia means longsuffering, and the word hypomania means patience, in the sense of

perseverance, cheerful constancy, continuity. In our text the verb from which makrothumia is

derived is used; and that verb is makrothumeoI suffer long. For example, many people who

lose their temper say, “I have lost my patience.” But to speak Biblically one should say, “I have

lost my longsuffering.” Therefore, our text has to do with longsuffering, and not with patience,

as these words are Biblically used.

 

The Definition of Longsuffering

 

By longsuffering a calm, peaceable, unresentful and self-possessed state of heart, mind and will

amid naturally exasperating circumstances is meant. A longsuffering person is always calm and

not perturbed; he is peaceable, not allowing himself to be stirred up to strife; and he is always

self-possessed, he keeps his temper under control and does not give way to anger.

 

Longsuffering does not act under all circumstances, but under circumstances that are naturally

exasperating – that naturally occasion the loss of one’s temper. Some examples of the proper

exercise of longsuffering include the teacher who does not allow himself or herself to become

angry when one should not be angry; the parent who does not allow himself or herself to become

unpeaceable toward the children when one should not allow himself so to become; and the

employer who maintains calmness when calmness is properly to be exercised toward his

employees.

 

Scriptures that Teach Longsuffering

 

2 Corinthians 6: 4-6: “But in all things approving ourselves as the ministers of God . . . by

longsuffering.”

 

Galatians 5: 22: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness,

goodness, faith.”

 

Ephesians 4: 1, 2: “I . . . beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are

called . . . with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love.”

 

Colossians 1: 11: “Strengthened with all might, according to his glorious power, unto all

patience and longsuffering with joyfulness.”

 

1 Timothy 1: 16: “Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might

shew forth all longsuffering, for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him to life

everlasting.”

 

2 Timothy 3: 10: “But thou hast fully known my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith,

longsuffering, charity, patience.”

 

2 Timothy 4: 2: “Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort

with all longsuffering and doctrine.”

 

Its Sphere of Operation

 

Husbands and wives find that they must exercise longsuffering in dealing with each other. This

is particularly the case shortly after marriage; for before marriage true lovers often see perfection

in each other, but under the conditions of everyday association such as husbands and wives have

with each other, faults surface that they never dreamed before their marriage that their

companions had.

 

Many parents think their children should be faultless, and to find them with faults, particularly

along hereditary lines, calls for the exercise of much longsuffering. They often forget that they as

children were not perfect and therefore often fail to make allowances for their children.

 

Sometimes fellow workers in one’s store, shop, factory, or office by their peculiar habits,

imposition on others, self-assertiveness and selfish ambitions supply many opportunities for the

exercise of longsuffering.

 

Disorderly neighbors who often litter the sidewalks and streets, hold wild parties and engage in

petty meanness calls for longsuffering to be acted out.

 

The Abuse of Longsuffering

 

Longsuffering can be both overdone and underdone. Some examples of it being overdone

include parents who allow their children to do almost anything without it stirring them up to

correct such behavior; and the teacher who is over longsuffering to the point where he does not

maintain proper discipline and order in his class.

 

There are times when longsuffering is underdone, is not exercised enough. How many a parent

fails to exercise longsuffering sufficiently toward his or her children! How many a husband or

wife fails to exercise longsuffering sufficiently toward his or her spouse! How many a teacher

fails to exercise longsuffering toward pupils that need it exercised toward them!

The grace of longsuffering is surely a desirable grace to cultivate and possess!

 

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